Nahu Lanham's Post about PSYCHIC SPACE

FORGIVENESS

Nahu Lanham | 12.24.06 | 08:59 PM |

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Submitted by Nahu Lanham on December 24, 2006 - 2:49pm.
I grew up in abusive foster homes. I could have suffered doubly from the pain and sadness I had to endure if it wasn't for something I learned early--forgiveness.

Forgiveness is something we must learn to give others, but strangely, it starts right at home, within ourselves. It is a difficult lesson to learn that we create the world we encounter by the way we see ourselves, yet it is intrinsically true. The love we give the child that has fallen within ourselves, that is, that part of ourselves we cannot accept, love or wish to reject becomes projected outward upon the world, and the world suffers in turn from our lack of forgiveness within.

In that sense, the forgiveness we give that part of our SELVES we wish to reject, is a form of self-love--a difficult thing to understand when we learned so well to hate ourselves. Part of this self-hatred comes from the way we remember others treating us through various forms of rejection or abuse; such as our father's harsh treatment or the lack of a loving mother figure.

Later on in life these hidden parts of ourselves become projected outward upon everyone we meet, blinding us in our ability to perceive people as they are, or in fact, to give love to others. Thus, we see ourselves as living in a loveless and uncaring world.

To forgive is a virtue and the truth of the matter will be seen in the fruits it will bear in our healthy relationships with others, and most of all, in the understanding we give ourselves. Without this inner forgiveness of self--we will grow ill and diseased.

I know this to be true, because I have heard people say, "I will not forgive them; I hate that person. He made my life terrible!" And several years later, they had a heart attack. I believe that it was directly related to their inability to forgive others for their behavior toward them.

Therefore, the gift I will give and hence, receive, is forgiveness, because forgiveness means to give oneself and hence others, love.

Let us all learn to forgive and to forget as our learned spiritual teachers so wisely have instructed, and the world will be a better place this Christmas and throughout the years ahead!

MANY BLESSINGS FROM THE LIGHT!
Nahu Lanham
author of: UFOs: GOD FROM INNER SPACE

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A Learning Alternative to Forgetting

Submitted by Bob Johnston on December 26, 2006 - 12:04pm.

Hi Nahu,

Thank you for your post. Since I am pretty good at forgiveness but poor at forgetting (one would think at bio-age 77 I'd be better at that), I've developed an alternative which has helped me immensely. It is based on my 'working hypothesis' that each of us enter our respective incarnations with a unique consciousness development mission and we require feedback to keep us on target.

Accordingly, a few years ago I came up with a standard thought for those who threaten or have harmed my integral health and welfare: 'Thanks but no thanks for your gift. I return your unhealthful intention to you in the interest of helping you realize your personal consciousness development intentions. So be it.' And if the memory returns I just repeat my wish for them which serves to reinforce the learning.

As a teacher-facilitator I feel good about this response because presumably I have helped them toward realization of their soul's main mission on earth. Further, I don't have to be concerned about forgetting.

Yours with empathy and trust in evidence-based integral natural science and our educative, timeless, transparent, mysterious Source,

Bob

GIFT GIVING AND RECEIVING

Submitted by Nahu Lanham on December 26, 2006 - 7:08pm.

Interesting take on sharing perspectives in the social hologram, and in part, it seems to go hand-in-glove with another thing I have discovered about life: you can give something to someone, or to self, but unless it is received, it remains an unfulfilled wish. So, the most important part of giving here, would be the ability to receive, because in this active gesture we demonstrate the ability to change our personal reality.

Peace and best wishes~
Nahu Lanham

Using Beta and Theta Consciousness

Submitted by Bob Johnston on December 27, 2006 - 8:00am.

I have experienced that, too, on what I call the Beta brainwave level of consciousness. However, my experience also tells me I have an additional option when it comes to preventing or returning gifts to beings with malevolent intent. I use this method only when I consider it ethically justified.

My alternate method utilizes the Theta brainwave level of consciousness where unless the recipient of the gift is one of the very few conscious and skilled enough to block it the gift goes sailing right through into the other's soul memory function for immediate manifestation, e.g. through a dream, body response, etc. and/or future reference for achieving their soul development goals.

Here's an example of just one of the many possible applications: I was once assisting one of my sons in buying a used car. Outside of putting air in the tires and checking the oil I know very little about auto mechanics and even less (on a Beta level) about protecting myself against the wiles of a possibly unscrupulous used car salesperson. So I decided I would work with both the salesperson's Beta and Theta brainwaves.

My mini-script went like this: If the salesperson was hiding a problem with a car my son was interested in the salesperson would orally complain of feeling nervous.

After looking at several cars my son thought he liked a VW bug the best. On a Beta level the salesperson claimed the car which had belonged to his wife was in perfect shape and indeed it looked clean and its engine purred beautifully. But then he began to break out in a sweat and said, "I don't know why I am feeling so nervous about selling a little old VW." Whoa! That admission prompted us to go over the car even more thoroughly and guess what we found when we looked under the back seat (which as you may know is where the battery in a VW bug is located)? We found an old battery leaking acid and apparently for some time for part of the floor was eaten away so much the battery could have fallen out within a short time. Further, there had been no attempt to replace the battery or repair the floor. Need I say more?

Yours with empathy, understanding and trust in our caring, timeless, omnipresent Source of all Consciousness who to me is the 'common denominator' of all healthful Light and Dark . . .

Bob

Loose the chains

Submitted by JED on December 26, 2006 - 4:56am.

I transcend to the degree I loose the chains of resentment, let go the psychic ballast of the past. Clutching my familiar pain, I am doomed to sink in the abyss of self-involvement, an infinite fractal regression of folly. JED

YOUR HONESTY IS A BLESSING!

Submitted by Nahu Lanham on December 26, 2006 - 7:17pm.

Honesty has often been spiritually called a "virture," and to that definitive, divine grace I must aver. For truly, it is the first step toward healthy healing specifically because it places the most salient features; i.e., feelings of pain and anguish, directly in the eyes of the beholder!

Thank you so much for your sincere sharing!
Nahu Lanham

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